Don’t overthink pronouns. You have pronouns that work as subjects and pronouns that work as objects. The subjective case is easy to understand. Consider these two sentences:
Me and Ronda are going to Italy.
Ronda and I are going to Italy.
Obviously, the second sentence is the grammatically acceptable one. The objective case, however, often trips up writers. For instance, which of the following sentences is correct?
She slid into the booth across from Stan and I.
She slid into the booth across from Stan and me.
If you picked the second sentence, you are correct. Often we overthink grammar and make it more difficult than necessary. The pronoun is the object of the preposition from and is the objective case, me.
When in doubt which case to use, break down your sentence and figure out the pronoun’s role. Is it the object of a verb or preposition or is it the subject? Answer that question and you’ll know which pronoun to use.
Happy writing, and congratulations to all of you NaNoWriMo winners!
